Friday, July 6, 2012

How You Sea It



I feel we are all islands - in a common sea.
Anne Morrow Lindbergh
 

Be calm


When others around you have decided to stir up the seas of life


Be calm

While people are huffing and puffing and starting storms of their own making


Be calm

When others try to hide the light and cause you to lose your way of peace

Stay calm
Life is how you sea it....
and that's poetiquejustis

Thursday, October 8, 2009

I am on jury duty this week.
We are going through voire dire right now, and I have not been chosen for the panel yet, but given my education and profession, I am finding the process more interesting than usual.
On my way to the courthouse, it struck me that jurors think about a lot of things on their way to court- where to park, how do I get out of this, etc. The one thought that does not often cross their mine is the defendant.
Odd.
Suddenly it struck me that somewhere in the Larsen Justice Center of Indio there was a person who was waiting for a twelve people to be selected who would decide his fate (it was in fact a guy)
Twelve people who would try their level best to get out of it. Twelve people who live in a country that fights wars around the world so people will have this privilege and who are now looking at their watches and formulating excuses.
Understandably, when the judge questioned me he asked me if my Doctorate in Criminal Justice would influence me. He answered his own question by saying he assumed an MD on the panel would have opinions on a malpractice suit. He then asked me if I thought I could be neutral. I told him that I had been known to argue points of law, but as a man's future was at stake here, I would do my level best.
The response to my mentioning the "elephant in the room" was pretty astounding.

The judge actually did a double take looking at me with curiosity.

You could here a pin drop in the courtroom.

The DA glared at me. How dare I remind everyone that this was not about us, but rather about the defendant?

I am a theorists, an academic and a criminologist. In my world, by the time we get to court, there have been layers upon layers of community and social failures that have occurred and we have funneled down to this now. Twelve people who want to be somewhere else deciding your fate.
But it is the best we have got.
And it is better than most.

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

What's In Store When the Stores All Go Away?

The other day I was downloading some music on to my iPhone. That was right after I had downloaded a book. It struck me that there was something gone from my life that may never come back.

Record stores for one thing.

I remember going to Woolworths with my mom when I was 6, having a grilled cheese sandwich at the lunch counter, and then going over to the record department and picking out my first record.

I used to love to go to record stores and flip through the albums (yes, I remember albums and even singles!) and hear the music speak to me like a chorus as I made my way from Herb Alpert to Led Zeppelin. I loved the creativity of the album art and I even read the liner notes. And all around me were people there to feed their soul at this buffet of sound and lyrics.

Gone. Now, I hold my Shazam app up to a radio to find out what a song is that has caught my ear, get whisked through cyberspace to iTunes and then the song comes to me.

I think I have lost something.

Books- really no complaints. Love being able to just grab a book online and then read it on my phone a few minutes later. There are really no bookstores left- at least out here. I will still browse Denver's Tattered Cover for ours (fireplaces, overstuffed chairs....) or the Upstart Crow in San Diego (always keeping your fingers crossed for one of the coveted tables by the window nestled between Women's Studies and Philosophy book shelves where you read and sip arguably the best latte this side of a coffee bean. Or, less notably for aesthetics but with its own charm, Latitude 33 book store in Laguna Beach. This is a place where the owner will put the perfect book in your hand whether you want her to or not- whether she knows you or not- and she uncannily right.

Books and records....record stores and book stores. Shopping online and sharing thoughts online.
Some scientists believe that this is the beginning of the creation of a great cosmic consciousness- all of us connected through the net of cyber space.

Wouldn't it be a drag if the answer to the eternal question was Facebook?